Tami Weissenberg b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f9ng v\u1ee3 v\u1edbi suy ngh\u0129: “M\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u01b0u mang c\u00f4 \u1ea5y”, song kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u1ea1i m\u1edf ra qu\u00e3ng \u0111\u1eddi \u0111au kh\u1ed5.<\/p>\n

V\u1ee3 anh t\u1eebng l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, k\u1ec3 anh nghe vi\u1ec7c c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp th\u1ebf n\u00e0o trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n trai tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. Weissenberg v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng, mong mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ee9ng minh cho c\u00f4 th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00e0o c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau.<\/p>\n

“H\u00f3a ra, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 v\u1edf k\u1ecbch l\u1edbn c\u00f4 \u1ea5y d\u1ef1ng l\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng tin c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t t\u00f4i sau n\u00e0y”, anh k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 kh\u1edfi ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n k\u00e9o d\u00e0i 6 n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111au kh\u1ed5, tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng. Ban \u0111\u1ea7u, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, c\u1ea3 hai ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft. H\u1ecd chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng nhau, d\u00f9ng chung t\u00e0i kho\u1ea3n ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng, chia s\u1ebb c\u1ea3 th\u00f3i quen h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. Ch\u1eb3ng bao l\u00e2u, h\u1ecd g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nhau ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n

Sau \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 di\u1ec5n bi\u1ebfn theo chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Weissenberg b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u mu\u1ed1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t anh v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n

“C\u00f4 \u1ea5y mu\u1ed1n t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd kh\u00e1ch s\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng n\u01a1i \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111ang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c tr\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e3i r\u00e1c. T\u00f4i t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i v\u00e0 ra xe. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00e1t t\u00f4i v\u00e0 h\u00e9t \u1ea7m l\u00ean”, anh k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

Khi \u0111\u00e3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng bi\u1ec7n minh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 \u0111\u1ea7y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh – m\u1ed9t qu\u00e3ng \u0111\u1eddi thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Weissenberg \u0111\u00e3 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 tha l\u1ed7i cho c\u00f4.<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1ng tr\u00f4i qua, s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a anh v\u00e0o m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn. “T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea7u lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i lo l\u1eafng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9”, anh nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

\u01afu ti\u00ean h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a Weissenberg l\u00e0 l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng n\u1eeda kia c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, tu\u00e2n theo m\u1ecdi quy t\u1eafc c\u00f4 \u0111\u1eb7t ra, nh\u01b0 ch\u1ecdn mi\u1ebfng tr\u00e1i c\u00e2y n\u00e0o cho c\u00f4 \u0103n, c\u00e1ch l\u1ef1a hoa qu\u1ea3, c\u00e1ch ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5.<\/p>\n

“N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u0129nh m\u1ed9t c\u00fa \u0111\u00e1nh v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 lu\u00f4n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady: L\u00e0m t\u1ed1t ho\u1eb7c s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i”, Weissenberg n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

Weissenberg ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ch\u1ecbu c\u1ea3nh b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Theo th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea, c\u1ee9 9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eb7p t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.<\/p>\n

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Hinh h\u1ecda \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp, b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t. \u1ea2nh:<\/p>\n

Theo Hi\u1ec7p h\u1ed9i T\u00e2m l\u00fd M\u1ef9, nam gi\u1edbi b\u1ecb v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p ch\u1ea5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng sau sang ch\u1ea5n (PTSD), tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, suy ngh\u0129 t\u1ef1 t\u1eed.<\/p>\n

D\u00f9 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ee5 b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e1o c\u00e1o do nam gi\u1edbi th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh vi l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng v\u1edbi n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

“Tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 th\u1ecb xung quanh h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ‘\u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i’ trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean coi nh\u1eb9 nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a nam gi\u1edbi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c”, ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 t\u00e2m l\u00fd Anh Anna Randle cho bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

Theo kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t \u0111\u0103ng t\u1ea3i tr\u00ean<\/p>\n

, t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng sau sang ch\u1ea5n (PTSD) \u1edf nam gi\u1edbi (do b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh) cao t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef.<\/p>\n

PTSD l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u1ed3i t\u01b0\u1edfng mang t\u00ednh th\u00e2m nh\u1eadp, t\u00e1i hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n sang ch\u1ea5n qu\u00e1 m\u1ea1nh trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. S\u1ef1 h\u1ed3i t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y k\u00e9o d\u00e0i h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u trong v\u00f2ng 6 th\u00e1ng sau s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n. Tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng bao g\u1ed3m n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh c\u00e1c k\u00edch th\u00edch li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n sang ch\u1ea5n, g\u1eb7p \u00e1c m\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 \u00e1m \u1ea3nh. N\u00f3i chung, c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn PTSD th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ecdi l\u00ean c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c ho\u1eb7c gh\u00ea r\u1ee3n.<\/p>\n

Nam gi\u1edbi b\u1ecb PTSD nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, kh\u00f3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn h\u01a1n ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. T\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y l\u00e2u d\u1ea7n l\u00e0m suy gi\u1ea3m c\u1ea3 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

Trong nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u do ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Denise Hines, \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Clark \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u, c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia \u0111\u00e3 xem x\u00e9t t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a 302 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng t\u1eebng b\u1ecb v\u1ee3, b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh (v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t l\u1eabn tinh th\u1ea7n). H\u1ecd g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 “ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a kh\u1ee7ng b\u1ed1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt”, \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng b\u1edfi c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c ho\u1eb7c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng g\u1eb7p t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n PTSD cao h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi nh\u00f3m \u0111\u1ed1i ch\u1ee9ng. Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u0169ng cho th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng t\u1eebng b\u1ecb b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u bia, ch\u1ea5t k\u00edch th\u00edch cao h\u01a1n. N\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ed3n ch\u1ed3n trong c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c do m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n

S\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn tinh th\u1ea7n. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 tin, l\u00e0m h\u1ecd nghi ng\u1edd v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u00e2u r\u1ed9ng sau n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

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