V\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0103n m\u1eb7c th\u1eddi trang, tr\u1ebb so v\u1edbi tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 c\u00f3 ch\u00fat quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 khi nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 sinh s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1 l\u00e2u n\u00ean t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 phong c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i kh\u00f3 m\u1edf l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ch\u00e0ng trai n\u00e0o t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch th\u1eed t\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam hay l\u00ean app h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u1edf n\u01a1i x\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n s\u00e2u xa khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i kh\u00f3 m\u1edf l\u00f2ng trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian r\u1ea5t d\u00e0i l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u v\u1ebft m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i. Thi tho\u1ea3ng, n\u1ed7i \u0111au v\u1eabn xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, d\u00f9 \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c t\u00f4i quay cu\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t b\u1ea3y n\u0103m thanh xu\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 qu\u00ean \u0111i k\u00fd \u1ee9c \u0111au bu\u1ed3n, t\u1ef1 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng d\u00f9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i c\u00f3 hai n\u0103m. X\u00e9t v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho t\u00f4i sang n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y nay. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 l\u1eabn ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, b\u1edfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u00ean g\u1eb7p kh\u00f4ng ai qu\u00e1 hai l\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i cho d\u00f9 h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfn xa v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. Th\u00e2m ch\u00ed, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ch\u00e0ng trai ki\u00ean tr\u00ec theo \u0111u\u1ed5i t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i n\u0103m, h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 th\u1edd \u01a1 v\u00e0 l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng t\u1eeb ph\u00eda t\u00f4i. Th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee9 tr\u00f4i qua cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi t\u00f4i quen bi\u1ebft anh. S\u1ed1ng \u1edf x\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u00f4i m\u1edbi hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1eefa c\u01a1m sum v\u1ea7y v\u00e0 c\u00e1i t\u1ebft \u0111o\u00e0n vi\u00ean \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0o. Do c\u00f4ng vi\u00eac, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 th\u0103m gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u1ed7i d\u1ecbp ngh\u1ec9 l\u1ec5 d\u00e0i nh\u01b0ng ti\u1ebfc l\u00e0 hi\u1ebfm khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o t\u1ebft c\u1ed5 truy\u1ec1n. M\u1ed7i khi kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc giao th\u1eeba \u0111\u1ebfn, t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n nh\u1ea5t. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f3c s\u01b0ng m\u1eaft \u1edf s\u00e2n bay khi chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i ch\u01a1i xa \u0111\u1ec3 qu\u00ean \u0111i n\u1ed7i nh\u1edb nh\u00e0. T\u00f4i quen anh t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Anh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e0i gi\u1ecfi, c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng trong ng\u00e0nh khoa h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 trong c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1edf t\u1ea1i. Ban \u0111\u1ea7u, ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec t\u00f2 m\u00f2 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi anh. Khi quen, t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn anh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n th\u1ea7m k\u00edn bao l\u00e2u ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ai cho anh nghe m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. Quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u00ecnh y\u00ean v\u00e0 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi anh h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y qua m\u1ea1ng.<\/p>\n
Trong th\u1eddi gian y\u00eau xa, anh \u0111\u00e3 cho t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt r\u1eb1ng anh l\u00e0 transguy (n\u1eef chuy\u1ec3n th\u00e0nh nam), kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c theo c\u00e1ch th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng. T\u00f4i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn anh khi bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 d\u00f9 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 d\u1ecb t\u00ednh. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, t\u00f4i c\u00f2n vui h\u01a1n b\u1edfi t\u1ef1 tin r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn nay. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m n\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m sau n\u00e0y. T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau m\u00ecnh, bi\u1ebft quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi nhau trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7. Ch\u1eafc qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u r\u1ed3i t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn gi\u1eefa t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 tri k\u1ef7 hay xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 ch\u0103ng? Do m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u00fd do, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n khi g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nhau l\u1ea7n hai.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i may m\u1eafn h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 l\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i d\u00f9 ba m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch. M\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 kh\u00f3c v\u00e0 mong t\u00f4i suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y, b\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n t\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n theo ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 c\u0169. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau theo \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng gi\u01b0\u1eddng hai n\u0103m. Trong th\u1eddi gian s\u1ed1ng chung, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 y\u00eau ch\u1ed3ng, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 tr\u00ean danh ngh\u0129a. Anh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng m\u1eabu m\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u01b0ng chi\u1ec1u v\u1ee3. T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7 v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n chung gi\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i \u0111\u1eddi. T\u00f4i n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh anh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111i ng\u1ee7 khi anh t\u1ec9nh d\u1eady v\u00e0 th\u1ee9c d\u1eady khi anh \u0111i l\u00e0m d\u00f9 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0m l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c khoa h\u1ecdc t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng nhau.<\/p>\n
Sau \u0111\u1ee3t say n\u1eafng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n nam, t\u00f4i c\u00e0ng kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau anh. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 sai tr\u00e1i, t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t khi t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi ch\u1edbm n\u1edf. Cay \u0111\u1eafng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 t\u00f4i ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh. Trong su\u1ed1t th\u1eddi gian quen v\u00e0 l\u00e0m v\u1ee3, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 cho anh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft anh lu\u00f4n y\u00eau t\u00f4i, khao kh\u00e1t c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con theo ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p IVF. Theo d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y trong m\u1ed9t, hai n\u0103m t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft anh y\u00eau t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n anh ch\u1ecbu b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0o. N\u1ebfu ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eef y\u00eau v\u00e0 th\u0103ng hoa c\u1ea3m x\u00fac l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. B\u00f9 l\u1ea1i, con c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai r\u1ef1c r\u1ee1 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u00f4i \u0111ang t\u1ef1 v\u1ea5n l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i b\u1ebf t\u1eafc trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi anh v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 c\u00fa \u0111\u1ea3 k\u00edch v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n t\u1ef1 tin nh\u01b0 anh. \u0110\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m cho h\u1ecd nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111ang m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,2],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nghethuatlamtinh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1613"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nghethuatlamtinh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nghethuatlamtinh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nghethuatlamtinh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nghethuatlamtinh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1613"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/nghethuatlamtinh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1613\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1780,"href":"https:\/\/nghethuatlamtinh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1613\/revisions\/1780"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nghethuatlamtinh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1613"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nghethuatlamtinh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1613"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nghethuatlamtinh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1613"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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